the maid quits

friday started out great with a trip to the gym, then the grocery store to prep the cupboards for the flood. After coming home and unpacking it all, making a great dinner and cleaning the house for a nice weekend at home with chris's days off, all hell breaks loose at 4:30. By this time I am just exhausted, a little from overdoing it at the gym and having braxton hicks all day. The kids and i were starving after smelling it for an hour and dediced to eat early cause it smelled so good. I asked for a little help after dinner and got complaints all the way around. I up and quit being the mom, caretaker, chef and the maid. needless to say I am a little embarressed at the state of our home and had to cancel the service tech for the internet today. I really thought after 1 day they would pull it together, but as of yesterday and this morning it is just adding up. I doubled my meds to keep from just getting up and doing it and trying to find something to do today. I wish all I did all day was watch tv and eat snacks(okay so it would drive me crazy as I don't watch tv and it drives me crazy that they can sit for days watching it) is it too much to ask to put things away when done, close cupboards after opening and throw away your own garbage? so here goes some pictures...

new name

well the name 5 neros won't for a blog title much longer, but I am struggling for a new title. Any ideas? I really like the number thing but something catchy....please help me...

We decided to visit grandpa this weekend
while he is feeling good and added one more trip to play with uncle zak and kids in the snow, left some a little exhausted. Grandpa and kids being silly after church on sunday.

Wow what a whirl wind it has been these last couple of months. If you have been following, My mom is doing good, trying things on her own. my dad is okay dealing with round 2 of chemo and third ultrasound has shown our little girl it doing just great. We are now hoping to coast till spring. Wish us luck.

Per request hear are some of the details. After a trip to minneapolis the ultrsound showed a slightly thicker nuchal fold(1 in 15 chance for down) We opted for blood test and scheduled the amnio. When all the all blood results came back negative for chromosomal defects(chances went to 1 in 1700) and they found the bladder we cancelled the amnio and . YEAH what a huge relief. It was neat to see her in 3D and loved the time they spent with us. Check out her biceps...hehehehe

michael turns 12

For his birthday this year michael wanted a "MAW" cake. The kids have gotten addicted to this game on the xbox, so Ashley made the alien and tongue out of fondant.

This was a very exciting day for Michael as his birthday fell on sunday so he was sustained in sacrament and received the priesthood. He is nervous, but excited.

When Michael was little I would always sing Mariah Carey, "My Baby" to him. I kinda changed the words a little, but I guess you could say it was his song. The current playlist are some of his favorite songs. Now we just have to burn him a cd so he can listen on his 1st cd player.

for the love of cake

As Michaels birthday is approaching all jonny can think about is cake. For the last couple of weeks, or since he got sick, "lets make the cake today" is all he can say. He doesn't want pancakes, just CAKE! So when asked is wanted to ice fishing to the big house this weekend alone with Chris, he said no 'cause he didn't want to miss the cake. Then we promised we save it till he got back. Again today, "mom, you have to save the whole cake, remember!" "I Love Cake" It has to be birthday cake, not any cake. He wants it for after school snack, breakfast, lunch and dinner. This photo was taken when making ashley's cake 2005. He has had to be my taster ever since. So I guess I will be making the cake tonight before he goes fishing for the weekend.

top 10 things we are expecting in 2009

10. more snow(chris just got a snow blower and excited to use it)
9. Jonny to grow a little longer and turn 5.
8. Michael turns 12!
7. Chris wil be 2 years from 40.
6. Ashley will turn 17. (where did the time go)
5. more fishing...the boys caught and ate berbet last week.
4. more delivered pizzas....
3. Ashley might get her 1st boyfriend?
2. Michael to recieve the priesthood.

and the number one thing we are expecting in 2009 is....

1. little nero #4.

snow days

we had our first snow day a couple of weeks ago so we jonny decided we should make his favorite breakfast, blueberry pancakes. He loves to cook or should I say bake. His other favorite is cake. He thinks every day is the perfect reason to make it. Other things includes: eggs, blue jello, grandmas chocolate cookies, rice krispie bars, bread, and anything that he can use the rolling pin on.

Catch up

What a long couple of months. With the colds, allergies and stuff that never seemed to end, we have taken a break from the basement to enjoy the holidays. The boys enjoy being sheet rock ghosts with the dust found down in the basement. We can't wait to have more space. During the summer we don't mind living on top of each other but baby, when it is cold outside, it seems pretty small on one floor.
After thanksgiving we(my brothers and sisters) decided together
for one day to see mom all together while she is finished her 3 month hospital stay. It was nice to be all together again.
Next we did some gingerbread houses with aunt sarah and uncle whitney. The kids are waiting for them to return from colorado so they can eat them. They are moving up to assist in the care of mom.
We set up the tree but couldn't get it decorated soon enough so michael and jonny took the project on by themselves and did a great job. Jonny placed them all in row, maybe I need to read the story to him again so he knows that it is the stockings that were hung in a row..hehehe.
Every day he asks if it christmas yet...then he counts the chains and stars left and sighs. Now that there are presents under the tree it is getting harder. I can't wait either for the excitment that the kids have on christmas morning. It is so infectious. Happy Holidays to All.

Thought I would share an artist with you that has some very inspiring words, India Arie. About a year ago I decided that it wasn't where I lived that could make me happy. I needed to be happy where I am before I could move on. So I think I have finally reached this point and the song, Theres Hope, says it nicely.

All Hallow's Eve

This year we decided to forgo our annual party. Ashley had a babysitting job and the boys weren't feeling well all week. It was nice however to get dressed and go out. We started out with pumpkin carving at 4 (ashley and I saving ours for fall decorations). Christopher's is the puking pumpkin. Michael made me nerous as he got to use the filet knife and a few extra tools. When I cut jonnys he got mad because it was a happy pumpkin. He wanted a scary pumpkin so we added the arrow. This of course leads us to the costume ordeal. Back in September jonny and I found this monkey costume that he had to have. But for the last couple weeks he only wanted scary scary scary. He was not going to wear the monkey so was just going as himself. We finally got the monkey costume on him and all pretended to be scared. After about 4 houses he loved being the monkey and kept saying how much fun it was. We had beautiful weather and could not have asked for better. By the ended of mile two I ended up with a monkey on my back. hehehehe. The boys really had a good time and we ended the evening with a few munster episodes and some fear factor.

Veggie Tales

Jonny won 4 tickets to VeggieTales Live Concert. He waited for 2 weeks to go and some nights could not sleep. Finally the "great" day came and he could barely contain himslef. He pouted the first half cause he could not go on stage. At intermission we got him the wand(that all the other kids had) and he felt much better. He was up dancing around with Ashley and loved it. At one point we thought they might sing Moo-Shoo Gi-Pan but they were just teasing. Ash got really sad at that. Towards the end he started asking about the costumes and I told him the people were wearing some but the veggies were real. He looked at me, ummm what about the black feet. I told him they to move somehow and he said they just bounced. And proceeded to show me. Then another great song came on and he moved on. I think Michaels favortie song was the Hamburger song. I personally like "I Love My Lips", which of course they did not play. We had great seats...row 14, off the the left center.

Ashley Turns 16!
It started with her Grandpa showing up after school to pick her up in "the truck" This was a very nice surprise and started her evening off right.
This year was a difficult party for me. I was all excited for her party as she invited a few friends over for cake and games. But to my surprise this was probably the first time she didn't want mom to play. I went for a walk to the fort with the boys, then took Jonny to the park. Of course all of that went to fast. We came back and sang Happy Birthday, had some cake and tried to find something else to do. This was one of the times I wish we had our basement done. This girls took the living room leaving the rest of to our bedrooms. After hearing a few of their conversations I decided I didn't want to be out there anyways and I tried to remember what is was like to 16 and with my girlfriends. Of course I only remember the parties when I was little and it was okay to have family....lol When I got older and I don't think I wanted my firens over. The girls had a great time and asked to repeat it. I hope that they will continue to feel welcome in my home and and that there are many get-together to come. The song I have dedicated to Ash is "My Wish" by Rascal Flats.

This has been an exciting year for her as well. She attended her 1st school dance week(homecoming) and had a blast. She has been accepted in United States Achievement Academy Who's Who and been invited to tour France and Italy with People to People Ambassadors. Of course this probably won't fit in our budget this year so hopefully she will be offered this opportunity will come up again. We have the informational meeting next week and find out all the details. She is ranked #2 in her class for NWEA school testing and continues to take advanced classes as they are offered. 2 more years and she will off to college somewhere hopefully close to home. She has truly lighted up our lives with her smile. "My wish for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to, you dreams stay big, your worries stay small, you never need to carry more than you can hold, and while you are out there getiing where your gettin' to, I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things to. This is my wish!"

Jonny Goes to Preschool

Jonny has been waiting to ride the bus for a year now and he finally got his chance. He goes to school M-W-F from 12:20-3:00. The bus picks him in front of our house at 12:05 and then they bus him to Michaels' school and he ride home with him. His first day, Chris came home early from work to see him off. Then we went out for lunch. It was nice to have the feelings of not worry about the kids at home while we were out. However, before that we had to wait for the bus. It took awhile for the bus to get there becuase other moms were doing the picture things as well. So jonny spent the time running around the yard posing. When the bus finally got there he was scared to ride by himself but put the excitement took over and he smiled all the way. I started to tear but then got it together as I know this is where he needs to be. The other day while falling asleep, he sat up and said, "Mom, I have to tell you something about school. We painted with our feet. I LOVED it." Ain't it Grand!

I want to give a shout out to my great friends Christa and Susan who I miss terribly. And to the other great friends that I have met along the way. You have all helped me become who I am today. Thank You I hope I can help you all as well. Thanks

School has begun and the time is flying. But lets back up a little to Jonny 4th Birthday. We have been busy so we are a little behind. We went to see Wall-E when it came out and Jonny decided that he wanted a wall-e party. He had family and friends over to help him celebrate. His actually birthday was on sunday. He woke up on the 27th and wanted to open more presents. He had decided that he wanted a bike. We decided that he could have it before church and chris left for work. He took a couple of turns up and down the hall and then immediately after church had to ride again. He rides every day now even if is just for a sec. The great thing is that we live in a very quiet neighborhood and he can go out alone to ride. We he sees a car he pulls over to a mailbox and waits for them to pass. He has learned the rules very well and listens to the directions without having to be told twice. I hope this continues...

All is quite at home currently with the older ones on their last summer hur-rah. Jonny has missed them and can't wait for them to come home. School will be after the holiday with all 3 going at some point. Ashley will start 10th, Michael in 5th and Jonny in preschool 3 days a week. He is super excited. What will I do to fill my time....

We went to lake this past week and had a blast. Jonny went "skiing" for the first time behind the big boat. He did fall after a while and was alittle shocked to be in the water all alone...but then realized he could swim with his life jacket. Next Michael tried it and did very well. We also had a lot of fun in the tube going for great rides. Ashley went out with the "big" boys and and took several "tumbles" from the tube. She was sore for a couple days afterwards. We hope we can make it up there one more time this summer.

Fishing just hasn't been the same since we moved here. The boys have to fishing on the river for dirty catfish. We are on the catch and release program. But the boys love it fishing with Chris and going on the boat. If you click on the picture, you can see the whiskers on the fish..hehehe

In June I went to Colorado to see my family out there and attended my sisters wedding. I had a blast staying with family members and playing with a couple of my nieces' and newphews as pictured. They are such a hoot to be with and hope to send Ashley out there for awhile to visit and enjoy the beautiful mountains.

Thanks guys for the great time!